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Find a Grief Therapist Online: What It Really Costs, and Who Takes Your Insurance
With insurance, online grief counseling averages about $15 a session, and on some plans it is $0. Without insurance, it starts around $50 a week. Free options exist for anyone who cannot spend anything right now. Those three sentences are what this page is for, because almost nobody in this field will put a price next to a promise.
Grief does not follow a schedule, and neither should getting help. Every service below connects you with licensed therapists who work with loss, most can see you within a day or two, and every price on this page was checked against the provider’s own site this month. Find the fit that matches your situation, whether that is insurance-covered sessions, an affordable weekly plan, daily text support, or a free path while money is tight.
Need help finding treatment? The SAMHSA National Helpline, 1-800-662-4357, is free, confidential, and answers 24/7.
- What it is: live video, phone, or messaging sessions with a licensed therapist who works with loss, from home, usually available within 24 to 48 hours.
- With insurance: Rula patients average $15 per session across more than 100 plans, and most insured Talkspace members pay a $0 copay.
- Without insurance: Calmerry starts at $50 a week, Online-Therapy.com runs a structured program with 20% off the first month, and Talkspace self-pay starts at $69 a week.
- Lighter support: HelpTexts sends daily grief support texts written by grief professionals from $8.99 a month through our partner page.
- Free: Solace, our own companion, is free forever, and the free-counseling section below lists real no-cost options, including support groups and hospice bereavement programs.
Grief Therapy and Counseling Services We Vetted
Six services, one job each. The first two work through your insurance, the next two are self-pay paths at honest prices, HelpTexts is daily support that is lighter than therapy, and Solace is ours and free. Every listing links to the full Memorial Merits review where one exists.
Rula: Grief Therapy Through Your Insurance ★
Grief therapy should not cost $150 a week out of pocket when your insurance already covers it. Rula connects you with licensed grief therapists in-network with more than 100 insurance plans, including Aetna, Anthem, Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cigna, UnitedHealthcare, and Optum. You browse detailed therapist profiles filtered by grief specialization, read patient reviews, and choose who you work with, and Rula verifies your coverage and tells you your exact per-session cost before the first appointment, so there is no billing surprise waiting at the worst possible time.
- $15 average per session with insurance; $150 per session cash rate without it
- In-network with more than 100 plans; coverage verified before your first appointment
- Choose your own therapist, filtered by grief specialization, in all 50 states
- Individual, couples, family, and child therapy, with online psychiatry available when needed
- Appointments as soon as the next day
Talkspace: Often $0 With Insurance, No Wait Lists ★
Grief does not wait for an open appointment six weeks out. Talkspace matches you with a licensed grief counselor within 24 to 48 hours through secure messaging and video sessions, and it bills your insurance directly: most insured members pay a $0 copay, with the average member copay at $10 per session. Between sessions you can message your therapist any time instead of carrying everything alone until the next appointment, which is the feature grieving clients mention most.
- Most insured members pay a $0 copay; average member copay $10 per session
- Self-pay from $69 a week for messaging therapy, $99 a week with live video sessions
- Matched with a licensed counselor within 24 to 48 hours
- Message your therapist between sessions at no extra cost
- Cancel or switch plans anytime
Calmerry: Self-Pay Grief Therapy From $50 a Week
Calmerry is the answer when you want a licensed therapist who understands loss without involving an insurance company at all. Video sessions, live chat, or private messaging, weekly sessions or on-demand written guidance, in whatever mix fits how you actually grieve. Plans start at $50 a week, which is the lowest verified weekly rate for live grief therapy on this page, and their grief counseling page pairs you with counselors who work with loss specifically rather than a general roster.
- From $50 a week, the lowest self-pay rate we verified this month
- Video, live chat, or private messaging, your choice per session
- Therapists matched for grief and loss specifically
- No insurance paperwork of any kind
- Switch therapists free if the first match is not right
Online-Therapy.com: A Structured Program With a Clear Path
Some people do not want open-ended talk. They want a path with steps on it. Online-Therapy.com pairs licensed therapist sessions with a structured program of daily activities, journaling prompts, worksheets, and progress tracking, built on cognitive behavioral therapy, so you can see yourself getting better week over week. It addresses grief alongside the anxiety and depression that often arrive with it, at a flat subscription price with no insurance required, and the first month is 20% off.
- Structured CBT program: therapist sessions plus daily worksheets and progress tracking
- 20% off the first month, verified on their site this month
- Flat subscription pricing, no insurance needed
- Grief, anxiety, and depression addressed in one program
- Best fit for readers who want structure rather than open-ended sessions
HelpTexts: Daily Support That Is Lighter Than Therapy
Not ready for therapy, or want something steady alongside it? HelpTexts delivers a short, comforting text most days, written by grief professionals, with coping strategies and reminders that what you are feeling is survivable. It is not therapy and does not pretend to be; it is a hand on the shoulder at a frequency you can live with. Through the Memorial Merits partner page the monthly plan drops from $9.99 to $8.99 and the annual plan from $109 to $99, and you can gift a subscription to someone grieving when you do not know what else to do.
- $8.99 a month or $99 a year through the Memorial Merits partner page
- Written by grief professionals; about two messages a week and up
- Personalized to your loss, including pet loss
- Giftable, which makes it a real answer to “what can I possibly send them”
- Not therapy, and honestly framed as support alongside or before it
Solace: Our Own Companion, Free Forever ★
Solace is ours. Built specifically to support you through loss, she is available at any hour, including the 3 a.m. ones. Talk through what you are feeling, use guided journaling prompts, or ask practical questions about the paperwork, finances, and planning that arrive alongside grief. No cost, no account wall, no sales pitch, and no replacement claim: Solace will be the first to tell you when what you are carrying deserves a licensed human therapist from the list above.
- Free forever, built and maintained by Memorial Merits
- Available 24/7 for the hours no office is open
- Guided journaling prompts and practical planning help in one place
- Points you to licensed human help when your situation calls for it
Does Insurance Cover Grief Counseling?
Usually, yes, and this is the single most expensive thing not to know. Health plans cover therapy for the conditions that ride along with loss, including depression, anxiety, and prolonged grief, when a licensed clinician is treating you. That is why Rula patients average $15 per session across more than 100 plans and why most insured Talkspace members pay nothing at all per session. The catch has never been coverage; it is that finding an in-network therapist by phone takes weeks a grieving person does not have. Both services above do the insurance work for you and show your cost before the first session, so the answer stops being a mystery.
If you have no coverage, or a plan with a high deductible, the honest math this month: Calmerry from $50 a week, Online-Therapy.com with 20% off the first month, Talkspace self-pay from $69 a week, or a Rula session at their $150 cash rate when you only need one or two.
Free Grief Counseling and Support Options
If money is the wall right now, these are real, free, and used by millions of grieving families. GriefShare runs 13-week grief support groups in thousands of communities and online. The Compassionate Friends supports families after the loss of a child, with local chapters and online communities. CancerCare offers free counseling with licensed oncology social workers after a cancer loss. Nearly every hospice offers free bereavement support to its community for a year or more after a death, whether or not your person was in their care; call the hospice nearest you and ask for the bereavement coordinator. And the SAMHSA helpline at 1-800-662-4357 will help you find low-cost treatment near you, free, any hour.
Online Grief Support Groups
A support group is not therapy, and for many people it is the right first step anyway: a room, virtual or not, where nobody needs your loss explained. GriefShare and The Compassionate Friends both run online groups, most hospices host virtual bereavement groups, and peer communities meet daily across the country. Groups pair well with the services above rather than replacing them, and a full Memorial Merits guide to free online grief support groups is in the works; until it ships, the free options above are the vetted starting points.
When Grief Needs a Professional
Grief itself is not an illness, and most people move through it with time, support, and the people around them. Therapy earns its place when grief stops moving: when months pass and functioning at work or at home is still not returning, when sleep stays broken, when guilt or numbness deepens instead of softening, or when you notice you are organizing your life around avoiding the loss. Our guide to the grief symptoms nobody warns you about can help you tell normal grief from the kind that deserves a professional in your corner.
Frequently Asked Questions: Online Grief Counseling
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