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Handling Social Media Accounts After a Death: A Guide

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In the digital age, social media accounts have become an integral part of our lives, shaping our interactions, memories, and online presence. When a loved one passes away, managing their social media accounts is a sensitive and often overlooked aspect of the grieving process. It’s important to handle these accounts thoughtfully, respecting the deceased’s wishes while offering comfort to family and friends.

This step-by-step guide will walk you through the process of handling social media accounts after a death, from memorializing accounts to closing them, and ensuring that the digital legacy of your loved one is managed with care.

1. Assessing the Situation: What Do You Need to Do?

When someone passes away, their social media accounts remain active unless action is taken to manage them. The first step is to assess the deceased’s digital footprint. Did they have accounts on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, or other platforms? Make a list of the social media accounts and decide whether you want to:

  • Memorialize the accounts: Keep the account open for others to visit and share memories.
  • Close the accounts: Permanently delete the account and all associated content.
  • Assign a legacy contact: Some platforms allow a trusted individual to manage the account after death.

Once you’ve decided on the course of action, you can begin the process of managing each account according to the platform’s policies.


2. Facebook: Memorializing or Deleting an Account

Facebook offers two primary options when handling the account of a deceased user: memorializing the account or deleting it.

Memorializing the Account

A memorialized account serves as a digital space for friends and family to share memories, post tributes, and reflect on the deceased’s life. Facebook will display “Remembering” above the person’s name, and certain features (like birthday reminders) will be disabled. To request a memorialization:

  • Submit a request through Facebook’s Memorialization Request Form.
  • You will need to provide proof of death (such as an obituary (aff) or death certificate).
  • Memorialized accounts cannot be logged into or changed by anyone.

Deleting the Account

If the deceased had requested account deletion or if you prefer to permanently close the account, you can also request deletion:


3. Instagram: Memorialization or Deletion

Instagram, like Facebook, offers both memorialization and deletion options for a deceased user’s account.

Memorializing the Account

A memorialized Instagram account allows followers to view the content but prevents any new posts or changes. To request a memorialization:

  • Submit a Memorialization Request on Instagram’s Help Center.
  • You will need to provide proof of death, such as a link to an obituary or news article.

Deleting the Account

To delete the account permanently, you must be an immediate family member:


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“Understanding various social media platform’s memorialization and deactivation policies can simplify the process and protect those we love.”

4. Twitter: Account Deactivation

Twitter does not offer a memorialization feature, so the only option is to deactivate and delete the account. If you need to deactivate a deceased loved one’s Twitter account:

  • Fill out Twitter’s Deceased User Account Request form.
  • Provide identification and documentation, such as a death certificate and proof of your relationship.
  • Once the request is processed, Twitter will deactivate and delete the account.

5. LinkedIn: Removing a Deceased Member’s Profile

LinkedIn offers a process for removing a deceased member’s profile from the platform. To delete a LinkedIn account:

  • Use LinkedIn’s Deceased Member Removal Request form.
  • Provide the required information, including the deceased’s profile URL, proof of death, and your relationship to them.
  • LinkedIn will then remove the profile and close the account.

6. Google: Managing a Deceased User’s Accounts

If the deceased had a Google account (which includes Gmail, YouTube, Google Drive, etc.), you can request to either delete the account or access specific data:

  • Submit a request through Google’s Inactive Account Manager. If the user set up this feature, they may have appointed a trusted contact to manage the account in the event of death.
  • If the account was not set up for legacy management, you can request to close the account or obtain data by filling out Google’s Request for Deceased User’s Data form.
  • You will need to provide documentation such as a death certificate and proof of your authority to manage the account.

7. Apple: Accessing or Deleting an iCloud Account

Accessing or deleting a deceased person’s iCloud account can be more challenging than with other platforms. Apple’s privacy policies are stringent, and gaining access to a deceased user’s iCloud account typically requires a court order. However, you can request that the account be deleted:

  • Contact Apple Support and provide a death certificate and any required legal documentation.
  • Alternatively, you can request to remove the account if the deceased set up a Legacy Contact feature on their Apple ID.

8. Managing Other Social Media Accounts

If your loved one had accounts on other social media platforms, such as Snapchat, Pinterest, or TikTok, each platform has its own process for handling the accounts of deceased users. Generally, you will need to:

  • Review the platform’s help center for their policy on deceased users.
  • Provide the required documentation, such as proof of death and your relationship to the deceased.
  • Request account deletion or, if available, memorialization.

9. The Importance of a Digital Will

Handling the social media accounts of a deceased loved one can be a complex and emotional task. To ease this burden, it’s a good idea for individuals to include instructions for their digital assets in their will. A digital will can outline how you want your social media accounts and other online properties to be managed after your death.

Include the following in a digital will:

  • Account Information: List the usernames and passwords for all social media accounts.
  • Instructions: Specify whether you want accounts to be memorialized, deleted, or passed on to a trusted individual.
  • Legacy Contact: Appoint a legacy contact where possible to manage your online accounts according to your wishes.

10. Conclusion: Preserving Digital Legacies

In today’s world, our digital footprints can be as significant as our physical ones. Managing a loved one’s social media accounts after death is an important step in preserving their memory and respecting their wishes. Whether you choose to memorialize, delete, or pass on the accounts to a legacy contact, it’s essential to handle the process with care and sensitivity.

By following this guide and preparing a digital will, you can ensure that your loved one’s digital legacy is preserved in the way they would have wanted.

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