Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What is Memorial Merits?

Memorial Merits is a resource hub dedicated to helping families with grief support, funeral planning, and legacy preservation. Our goal is to provide practical tools, guides, and trusted partners so that end-of-life planning feels less overwhelming.

Who created Memorial Merits?

Memorial Merits was created by Gabriel Killian in honor of his father. It continues as a mission-driven project focused on supporting families during some of life’s most difficult times.

What is the Legacy Journal?

The Legacy Journal is a guided memory-keeping book designed to help individuals record life stories, values, and personal history for future generations. It is available on Amazon in paperback, hardcover, and a special Legacy Edition.

What is Solace?

Solace is our AI-powered journaling, writing, estate planning, funeral planning and grief support tool. It is designed to help individuals process grief, capture memories, and explore legacy-building ideas in a private and supportive space. Solace does not replace therapy or counseling, but it can be a helpful companion for reflection and storytelling.

Can I submit an obituary or digital memorial on your site?

Yes. We welcome obituary submissions and digital memorials. Memorial Merits was created to honor lives and preserve legacies, and we are committed to providing a respectful space where families and friends can share memories. Feel free to use our free online obituary submission & digital memorial service.

Do you earn commissions from links on this site?

Yes. Some of the links on Memorial Merits are affiliate links. This means that if you make a purchase through those links, we may earn a commission at no extra cost to you. These commissions help keep the site running and allow us to continue offering free resources.

Are your recommendations independent?

We only recommend partners, products, and services that we believe add genuine value to our readers. All affiliate partnerships are disclosed, and our content remains focused on helping families make informed decisions.

How do I contact Memorial Merits?

You can use our Contact page to send a message directly through our form. We also list a support email so that you can reach us quickly.

Is Memorial Merits a funeral provider?

No. Memorial Merits does not sell funeral services or operate as a funeral home. We provide educational resources, guides, and partner referrals to help families save time, money, and stress when planning.

Do you provide legal advice?

No. Memorial Merits does not provide legal advice. Articles and resources that reference legal topics are for informational purposes only. For professional legal help, we recommend consulting an attorney or using one of our trusted legal partners.

How do you choose your trusted partners?

We carefully evaluate the partners we recommend. Factors include reputation, reliability, cost transparency, and the ability to provide genuine support to families. Our goal is to feature only those services that align with the values of Memorial Merits.

We respect the privacy of every individual who contributes. Any stories, memorials, or personal details shared with us are handled with care. We do not sell personal information, and we only publish contributions with the consent of the person submitting them.

Is Memorial Merits available outside the United States?

Yes. While many of our partners operate primarily in the United States, our articles, guides, and digital resources are accessible worldwide. International readers are welcome to use our tools, submit memorials, and engage with our community.

What should I do if I need immediate grief or mental health support?

If you are in crisis or need urgent support, please contact your local emergency services or a crisis hotline in your area. In the United States, you can dial 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Memorial Merits provides resources and support, but we are not a substitute for professional counseling or emergency assistance.

How do I know if your resources are current?

We regularly update our guides, articles, and partner listings. While some information may change over time, we make every effort to keep our content accurate and up to date.

Can I contribute my story or resources?

Yes. Memorial Merits welcomes community contributions. If you would like to share your story, write for us, or recommend a resource, please reach out through our Contact page.